Just Engaged? 5 Things to Do Next
That just-engaged glow is real. This is such a special season, and the first steps you take can set the tone for a smooth, elevated planning experience.
In this blog post we review five essential things to do right after getting engaged to start your wedding journey beautifully.
1. Celebrate the Moment (Pause and Soak It In)
Before diving into Pinterest boards and vendor emails, take a moment to enjoy being just engaged. Celebrate with family and friends, capture photos, and share your joy. These memories are priceless. This chapter is fleeting, let yourself enjoy it fully before the planning whirlwind begins.
2. Align With Your Partner on the Big Picture
Discuss your vision together:
Intimate gathering or grand celebration?
Classic, modern, romantic, or whimsical?
What are your non-negotiables (guest experience, design, food, location)?
This conversation ensures every decision that follows reflects both of you.
3. Set a Realistic Budget (and Guest Count)
Budget and guest count guide your entire planning process. Start by:
Clarifying who may contribute financially
Determining a comfortable overall budget
Drafting a rough guest list range
Even a rough outline early on prevents stress and ensures your vision is achievable.
4. Choose Your Date (or Date Range)
Flexibility opens doors to more venues and vendors. Consider:
Multiple date options
A preferred season rather than a fixed day
Weekday or Sunday celebrations for more availability and value
5. Bring in a Wedding Planner Early
Hiring a planner early can save time, money, and stress:
Avoid costly mistakes
Build the right vendor team for your style
Create a realistic planning timeline
Translate your vision into a cohesive, elevated experience
Even a consultation at this stage can be invaluable.
Wedding planning is a journey, and every thoughtful step adds meaning to the celebration ahead.
Newly engaged? Shelley Ann Events is here to guide you through a seamless, beautiful planning experience.
Let’s connect and schedule your complimentary consultation. I’m so excited to talk all things wedding and be on your team.
XOXO,
Shelley
